How I Failed My Clothing No-Buy Year—Turns Out Underwear Was My Breaking Point
- bkhgirl
- Jun 19
- 2 min read
On December 8, 2025, I set a goal: buy no clothing for a year.
Well, I failed.
I made it six months and change. But here’s what I learned.
It sounds easy enough—don’t buy any clothes. I’m not a huge shopper anyway, so was this challenge really going to be that challenging?
I started out strong. I had very few urges to buy anything. My first real test was a simple black zip-up jacket. At work, I wear short sleeves or tank tops while massaging, but I always throw on a light jacket between clients to stay warm. At the end of 2025, my favorite one finally gave up the ghost. The zipper broke, and it got tossed.
Every day without that jacket, I considered buying a replacement. Every. Single. Day.
But I resisted.
(P.S. I have since purchased the jacket. I’m writing this before it has even arrived, which feels premature to announce, but technically isn’t.)
Another challenge came while traveling. In Hawaii, I stood staring at a cute Hawaiian dress. I was actively encouraged to buy it, but I said no. When would I even wear it outside of that trip? Was I really going to become a “casually wears tropical-print dresses at home” person? Probably not.
The point of this challenge was to be more thoughtful about my purchases. Less impulsive. I hate owning clothes I don’t wear. In fact, I regularly get rid of things that sit untouched in my closet. Even though I donate them, it still feels wasteful. I want to own clothes because I wear them—not because they briefly captured my attention in a fitting room.
Then came the things I actually needed.
New socks. New underwear. A sports bra.
My husband told me to just buy the socks.
I resisted.
Then one day I ran out of clean underwear and decided this whole thing was getting a little ridiculous.
Or had it?
I bought the black jacket I genuinely wanted.
I bought the top and shoes I wished to have for our trip to France.
I bought underwear.
Soon, I’ll buy socks.
And maybe that’s all I need for the next six months.
Which, honestly, feels like a win.
Because the goal was never really to buy nothing. The goal was to stop buying things just because I could. To pause. To wait. To ask myself whether I actually needed something or whether I’d forgotten about it by next week.
Turns out, most things fall into that second category.
The few that don’t? Those are probably worth buying.



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